Frazzled - Tues 20 Nov



Written: Tuesday 20 Nov 2012
Comments: Tuesday 27 Nov 2012 
Posted: Wednesday 5 Dec 2013 

Frazzled
Still Frazzled but not as stressed :P
Not as frazzled or stressed, somewhat recovered!

Hehe, I realised that last week’s post implied that I thought I was Super Woman the rest of the time... Not quite!!

I now have 7 days free between now and January 3, including some 14 hour days where LWT has somehow ended up at 3 different locations at once. My biggest concern is how I am going to get through this weekend. And no I won’t be appearing and two places at once. Simone, Jayne and Kali will be running round like headless chooks beside me!

I got through the weekend somehow... with only a few minor mishaps including HAIL and forgetting my marquee legs :P I was very grateful for the hail on Saturday night at Wanneroo (after getting over it wetting everything and making my car stink of wet card board) as it gave me a perfectly good reason to pack up, quit while I was ahead, and go home to spend the night with my family :P

Markets, the E Shed shop, shows and shopping centres are just one side of life at the moment. Juggling early intervention, transitioning my boy into a new school (practice for next year), sorting out the dreaded uniform and booklist and Christmas gifts and plans... are just some of the other things we are dealing with at the moment, as are most other families at this time of year! Oh and add in good old Vac Swim which I have now missed registration for *oops* (Mother of the Year again!)

I am guessing most families are tired and strained at this time of year based on observing people at the shops this week! I’m not the only frazzled (or grumpy) mum around here!!
We have also now started with a new OT much closer to home that we are so far happy with. For the past few months we have had a break from therapy but it has constantly been on my mind to find a new OT and psych. Finding one closer to home that provides the services we need has taken a huge stress off my mind and we are no longer driving to Stirling and Joondalup weekly, meaning my boy is spending more time in school instead of driving to appointments. Driving in Perth traffic from south to north is horrid!!

And I couldn’t do any of this without the support of my husband doing the school runs, dinners, posting out online orders and keeping the little ones alive and fed. (Not just alive and fed but it is a good start when looking after little ones).
Oh and add the crappy rent inspection too to the To Do List which of course happens to be in the middle of a 2 week stint at Southern River shops.

We still have to get through crappy rent inspection!!! *argh*

Oh and Missy’s third birthday is this week so somehow I have to create a Tinkerbelle cake after the Wanneroo Show at around 12pm at night *eek* Why do I do this to myself?!?!

I did it!! (Or should I say we....I did it while yelling at hubby to hold onto the Malteasers as the icing kept melting and they kept rolling off! Yes I was grumpy and tired!) It looked dreadful until Tink saved the day!!! Haha



But I love the pressure of the silly season (as I loved the pressure of exams at uni and the stress of managing a kitchen in days past – Haha yes I can cook, I just choose not to! Likewise with the cleaning :P) However, I do sometimes wish it would all go away... like this morning when Santa stole my stall space at Livingston shops. I did end up getting a better spot but had to wait an hour for it (patience is not a strong point of mine – I want it and I want it now!). After finding a new spot, getting myself in a flap over everything going not quite to plan, sweating like a pig after having to move everything twice (very attractive), I finally got settled only to realise I had left the table cloths in the car. I went to go get the tablecloths while enjoying my coffee, only to find more boxes in the car *blah* Carried boxes and table cloths back to shops at the expense of my poor coffee left in the car park as I couldn’t carry it all L ...Life goes on! But only just without morning coffee!!

Haha this is where my post on ‘Breakfast’ came in, which got a bit of a reaction from some Facebook fans. :P

Again there is not much point to my ramblings today! Somehow writing it down makes my head stop thinking and therefore helps. No doubt I would prattle on to a brick wall if it showed any sign of listening!!

I must smell today. I am sitting down writing this (as I am incapable of sitting still without ‘doing’ something) and it is very quiet at the shops. It also doesn’t help that I picked up the wrong box of instruments and so my display is a little dismal in parts. Hubby is coming to fix that soon though *yay*

I am now sitting writing this, freezing my butt of and almost being blown away INSIDE the shopping centre. My stall spot is in a position where when someone comes in the door, all the wind blows in and knock stuff over :P I bought a thick blankie from Coles which at the moment is cushioning my bum from the milk crate I am perched on :P Comfy!

Question to other mums that work full time:
How do you cope with working and running a household with small children? Are you in my situation where hubby is home while you work? Otherwise how do you do it!? It doesn’t seem humanly possible!
I know I could not build the business at this level without hubby at home. I also know that I may not ever have the chance to work full time again (in near future while littlies are still little!) which is also why I am working my butt off until Jan 5 when hubby then goes back to full time work.

Oh and I haven’t had a nervous breakdown or fallen in a heap as last night’s Facebook post might suggest. I am just giving myself a break and looking after myself to avoid this from happening! The world will continue whether I reply to emails today or not.
 I actually feel quite on top of things this week, last weekend was a nightmare but that is over now :P
Note: All orders are going ahead as planned – they have not been put on hold so don’t worry! And don’t email me to check!! Haha

Wednesday 5/12/12: Most of this post is irrelevant now but posting it anyway. It will be good to look back on next year and see if I do it all again :P No doubt I will!

Toorah for now!